A Letter to Evermore Ridge Brides, A Luxurious West Virginia Wedding Venue
- evermoreridgewv
- Sep 30, 2025
- 4 min read
Updated: Oct 10, 2025
Dear Evermore Ridge wedding venue brides,
As you embark on this exciting journey toward your wedding day and marrying the love of your life at our luxurious West Virginia wedding venue, I want to take a moment to recognize all the emotions, challenges, and joys that come with wedding planning. Each bride's story and journey throughout planning is unique, and your path is no exception. This letter is for you—whether you’re coping with a loss, managing a tight budget, feeling overwhelmed, or balancing family and friend dynamics and expectations. I want you to know you aren't alone.
To the Bride Who Lost Someone
If you’re a bride who has lost someone dear, remember that their love is part of your wedding. It’s understandable to wish they could witness your vows and celebrate your lifelong union. Remember, their spirit is with you, offering strength as you move forward.
To honor their memory, think about meaningful gestures. You could include a pendant in your bouquet that belonged to them or reserve an empty chair at the ceremony. Many of the previous Evermore Ridge brides have found comfort in honoring loved ones who have passed during their wedding day. This bond will always be part of your special day.
One of our June brides, Candace, laid her bouquet on the chair dedicated to her mother who had passed away prior to her wedding day. I was sobbing. This moment was so special and will always be remembered by all who attended.
To the Budget-Conscious Bride
For those planning within a budget, it's easy to feel pressure to create a fairy tale day. Remember, the heart of your wedding lies not in lavish decorations but in marrying your best friend and life-long partner.
Focus on what truly matters: your love. Prioritize elements that resonate with both of you. DIY solutions can save you up to 40% of total wedding costs. Embrace creativity; the most beautiful memories often come from the heart, not the wallet.
One of our previous Evermore Ridge brides, Maddie, imagined a beautiful macrame hanging behind her and Dereck (groom) during their ceremony. So, her father built this frame for them to hang it on! Thank goodness for awesome dads!
To the Pinterest-Scrolling Bride
To the bride who can’t stop scrolling through Pinterest, I see you! The endless inspiration can be both invigorating and daunting. While it's great to seek ideas, remember that perfection is not the key to a magical day.
Choose a few standout elements that reflect your style and personality. For example, if you adore flowers, consider a stunning floral arrangement on our West Virginia outdoor wedding ceremony arch that captures your vision. A unique cake design, like a naked cake adorned with seasonal fruits, can be both eye-catching and budget friendly. Aim for 3-4 personal touches that highlight your vision and love story to make your day truly special and leave the Pinteresting behind.
To the Bride Who Feels She Has to Do It All
To the bride feeling the weight of the world, it’s completely okay to ask for help. You are not alone, and seeking support makes the wedding planning journey easier and more enjoyable.
Consider enlisting family and friends willing to lend a hand. If you have close family or friends that enjoy crafting decorations, let them use their talent to help you. Involving others not only lightens your load but can also deepen relationships with loved ones. You deserve to feel supported and cherished during this exciting time.
To the Bride Juggling Family and Friend Dynamics
If you're handling complex family or friend dynamics, keep in mind that your wedding day is primarily about you and your partner. It can be tempting to try to please everyone, but your happiness should always come first on this day.
Establish clear boundaries and communicate openly. It’s okay to turn down requests that clash with your vision. Prioritizing your joy will lead to a more meaningful celebration.
Boundaries on your wedding day are okay and will set the tone for your marriage as well. You and your partner should have each other's back and typically it is best to let each partner deal directly with their own family or friends.
To the Bride Who Worries She’s Not Doing It Right
If anxiety about “doing it right” fills your mind, take a moment to breathe deeply. There is no universal playbook for planning a wedding. What matters is that your day reflects both you and your partner’s values.
Trust your instincts and embrace the choices that resonate with you. Whether you envision our open-air chapel ordained in drapes and a chandelier or a more woodsy vibe with greenery and florals, follow your heart. Your day will shine in its own unique way, showcasing the love you share.
Celebrating the Journey
As you navigate the ups and downs of wedding planning, step back and breathe. Don’t let minor frustrations and setbacks overshadow the joy and excitement in your heart.
Focus on the love that brought you here and know that I am always here for my brides if there is ever anything I can do to help make your wedding planning easier. Your wedding is a beautiful reflection of you and your partner, and it deserves to be honored in a way that feels right to you.
Final Thoughts from Our Luxurious West Virginia Wedding Venue
To all the brides celebrating their love at our luxurious West Virginia wedding venue, this letter serves as a reminder: you are not alone on this journey. Each of you is walking your own path, filled with both challenges and beautiful moments and I am here for you!
With love,
~A previous bride and wedding venue owner, Brooke
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